Bettytlopez

GOOD DAY MAID

February 19, 2006

Today is Sunday and I am working in the office waiting for my clients to arrive. At 1:30 I am waiting for this Indian lady married to an expat. She is looking for an Indonesian maid to take care of her 4 year old daughter.Two Indonesian girls are coming for interview.Today , Filipino maids go out for their day off.

Its funny why FIlipino maids want to work only for white employers and not for local ones(you know Indians, SIngaporeans ,Malay). May discrimination na rin sila. Maids who specially had worked in Singapore for even a few months would prefer white maski na kamukha ni Redford White,basta puti ang gusto nila.

If you are planning to work in SIngapore and you are bringing your kids, its best that you already look for a good maid in the Philippines to bring here because you will not find one who will last with you kung hindi mo sila kilala. The favorite past time of maids in Singapore are strolling in Orchard road, chatting with other maids in Lucky Plaza or at Gulong Park(near the Orchard MRT) and going to mass(funny why they consider this a past time).

They come in all shapes and sizes. Every Sunday, you see them wearing the skimpiest of clothes which they can never wear in the Philippines or in the homes of their employers. Some enterprising ones sell things to other maids on their day off, some do part time work(cleaning other peoples houses which is prohibited here) and some go to discos with Myanmar, Bangla Deshi or Indian men.

You hear all kinds of stories about their employers, all sorts of complaints and very few would sing praises about their bosses. I believe its because they are home sick and lack the affection of theirloved ones. So its not uncommon to hear of maids even those who are married to have Indian,Bangladeshi or Indian Boy friends.

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY MAMA!!!

Tomorrow, February 20 is my Mothers birthday. I love u mother and we miss you very much . Below was the last photo we had together as a family (Dec 2003)

(Mama passed away on June 20 after celebrating with my father their 49th wedding anniversary (June 11), Papa’s bday(June 16) and father’s day (June 19) 

(Lyrics of Iingatan ka..from TANGING INA)

Sa buhay kong ito tanging pangarap lang
Ang ‘yong pagmamahal ay makamtan
Kahit na sandali kita ay mamasdan
Ligaya’y tila ba walang hanggan
Sana’y di na magising
Kung nangangarap man din
Kung ang buhay na makulay
Ang tatahakin
Minsan ay madarapa, minsan din ay luluha
‘Di ka na maninimdim pagka’t sa buhay mo
Ay may nagmamahal pa rin

Iingatan ka, aalgaan ka
Sa puso ko ikaw ang pag-asa
Sa ‘ting mundo may gagabay sa’yo
Ang alay ko’y itong pagmamahal ko
May nagmamala aakay sa’yo
Ang aking ina’y ikaw ang nagbigay ng buhay ko
Buhay na kay ganda
Pangarap ko na makamtan ko na

Sana’y di na magising
Kung nangangarap man din
Kung ang buhay na makulay
Ang tatahakin
Minsan ay madarapa, minsan din ay luluha
‘Di ka na maninimdim pagka’t sa buhay mo
Ay may nagmamahal pa rin

Iingatan ka, aalagaan ka
Sa puso ko ikaw ang pag-asa
Sa ‘ting mundo may gagabay sa’yo
Ang alay ko’y itong pagmamahal ko
May nagmamahal aakay sa’yo
Aking ina’y ikaw ang nagbigay ng buhay ko
Buhay na kay ganda
Pangarap ko na makamtan ko na aaahhh

Iingatan ka, aalagaan ka
Sa puso ko ikaw ang pag-asa
Sa ‘ting mundo may gagabay sa’yo
Ang alay ko’y itong pagmamahal ko
May nagmamahal aakay sa’yo
Aking ina’y ikaw ang nagbigay ng buhay ko
Buhay na kay ganda
Pangarap ko na makamtan ko na
Pangarap ko na makamtan ko na

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